Emotionally week ?? Find out why..

1. You need strength from your loved one, but you don't get it. You find yourself alone.
          You should expect less and do more. If you love 'em, you shouldn't expect a  lot. And if you do but you don't get it, don't complain. Just have faith that no matter what, you are not alone. Love yourself and live your life.


2. You are not mentally strong.
          Not your mistake. Don't worry. Just be calm, relax a li'l. Take a deep breath and think about the positive aspect of it which might make you happy. Staying happy is the goal, thinking positive is the mantra. 


3. You are not aware of the real-bad-world.
          I understand. It's not necessary that an early age, your exposure to the world is enough for its introduction. Be strong and face the world. I know they'll torment you to the core, but don't lose hope. Fight. Show 'em that you're no less. You are the best.


4. You've lost hope.
          Losing hope is the biggest mistake you'd make then. No matter how miserable you are or, you are alone or the whole world is against you, you need to have the hope and keep saying one simple thing, "God is with me, he will make it right for me". And trust me, everything will be right. 


Yes you got it right. now you know it. Gather yourself, hold yourself tight and give yourself a chance. 
Keep smiling. :)

Equality in sexes is still an issue..?? Shame on us!

Today early morning when I signed in my facebook account I saw the first update from my teacher. A debate topic.. "WORLD WOULD BE BETTER IF RUN BY WOMEN.."
I really wanted to write something there but instead I chose to write a blog. Yes the same topic.
But instead of a debate I'd rather make it a humourously practical blog.

To start with early times, women were given less important and were not given the chances to prove themselves. But now the time has changed. With the time, society has also changed. Women are given equal total rights like standing in the elections, different ques too... LOL. But wen we come to the designation to run the world... What I believe is that it really doesn't depend on that. Its the sense of responsiblity that can actually make the world a better place... Either sexes should be responsible. Not necessary that the women is a prime minister, she can bring a change. Even a simple house wife can.

I love givein her example in such situations. Ms. Kiran Ahluwalia did. She is a simple indian lady whose husband did no good to her. He used to harass her like completely... She was shattered. Her dreams of a good marriage were shattered. But after suffering years of abuses and harassment, she burnt her husband and got imprisoned. But still she won the case and was acknowledged internationally. And now, no husband dares to do such a thing to ladies because of the laws government has made after such cases.
This itself is a big change.
Then former IPS officer Dr. Kiran Bedi has done really good job all her life and had done a great welfare for the prisonors of Tihar.
oh so many kirans. . !!
Well moving on to men. Rather a boy... One day I saw on news that a 10 year old boy saved a girl from being kidnapped... And then the reporter helped evacuating at the time of a terrorist attack.. and ofcourse Mr. APJ Abdul Kalam has given so much in the science field.

And about the designation thing, I still see so many women leaders doing no good to the society. It's not that just women are doing bad but men do it too...
Because if we talk of the people in power, no matter what the designation is, a person has to be responsible and should have an urge for the welfare of the society. Be it any of the sexes, if a person takes bad advantage of the power, he or she is doing no good to the society.
I don't blame anyone though... I just believe in equality.

A person can never be judged as good or bad, its the behaviour and thinking of the person. If each and every person is responsible for onself and the society and is true at heart and has the desire to change onself and hence the society, they can actually bring a change, no matter what sex they belong to...  And hence the change is brought into the society...