Emotionally week ?? Find out why..

1. You need strength from your loved one, but you don't get it. You find yourself alone.
          You should expect less and do more. If you love 'em, you shouldn't expect a  lot. And if you do but you don't get it, don't complain. Just have faith that no matter what, you are not alone. Love yourself and live your life.


2. You are not mentally strong.
          Not your mistake. Don't worry. Just be calm, relax a li'l. Take a deep breath and think about the positive aspect of it which might make you happy. Staying happy is the goal, thinking positive is the mantra. 


3. You are not aware of the real-bad-world.
          I understand. It's not necessary that an early age, your exposure to the world is enough for its introduction. Be strong and face the world. I know they'll torment you to the core, but don't lose hope. Fight. Show 'em that you're no less. You are the best.


4. You've lost hope.
          Losing hope is the biggest mistake you'd make then. No matter how miserable you are or, you are alone or the whole world is against you, you need to have the hope and keep saying one simple thing, "God is with me, he will make it right for me". And trust me, everything will be right. 


Yes you got it right. now you know it. Gather yourself, hold yourself tight and give yourself a chance. 
Keep smiling. :)

Equality in sexes is still an issue..?? Shame on us!

Today early morning when I signed in my facebook account I saw the first update from my teacher. A debate topic.. "WORLD WOULD BE BETTER IF RUN BY WOMEN.."
I really wanted to write something there but instead I chose to write a blog. Yes the same topic.
But instead of a debate I'd rather make it a humourously practical blog.

To start with early times, women were given less important and were not given the chances to prove themselves. But now the time has changed. With the time, society has also changed. Women are given equal total rights like standing in the elections, different ques too... LOL. But wen we come to the designation to run the world... What I believe is that it really doesn't depend on that. Its the sense of responsiblity that can actually make the world a better place... Either sexes should be responsible. Not necessary that the women is a prime minister, she can bring a change. Even a simple house wife can.

I love givein her example in such situations. Ms. Kiran Ahluwalia did. She is a simple indian lady whose husband did no good to her. He used to harass her like completely... She was shattered. Her dreams of a good marriage were shattered. But after suffering years of abuses and harassment, she burnt her husband and got imprisoned. But still she won the case and was acknowledged internationally. And now, no husband dares to do such a thing to ladies because of the laws government has made after such cases.
This itself is a big change.
Then former IPS officer Dr. Kiran Bedi has done really good job all her life and had done a great welfare for the prisonors of Tihar.
oh so many kirans. . !!
Well moving on to men. Rather a boy... One day I saw on news that a 10 year old boy saved a girl from being kidnapped... And then the reporter helped evacuating at the time of a terrorist attack.. and ofcourse Mr. APJ Abdul Kalam has given so much in the science field.

And about the designation thing, I still see so many women leaders doing no good to the society. It's not that just women are doing bad but men do it too...
Because if we talk of the people in power, no matter what the designation is, a person has to be responsible and should have an urge for the welfare of the society. Be it any of the sexes, if a person takes bad advantage of the power, he or she is doing no good to the society.
I don't blame anyone though... I just believe in equality.

A person can never be judged as good or bad, its the behaviour and thinking of the person. If each and every person is responsible for onself and the society and is true at heart and has the desire to change onself and hence the society, they can actually bring a change, no matter what sex they belong to...  And hence the change is brought into the society...

End of the school days!!

Its almost a month left for my final examination and i'll be out of the school!
My heart is in a delima of emotions... Not just mine but everyone has a confused emotion of joy of getting out of the school and sorrow of the same... Its ironic to be sad and happy for one same reason and that too at the same moment...
Remembering the old days we spent together is obvious as the end of the session is coming closer! That day I was sitting in the classroom's corner most chair... thinking about the past... the blast we had! I've been here for 15 years and have experienced life to its peak... I made friends, I made enemies... I scored my best and the worst in front of the same people!
But its kind of wierd that when you call a girl or a guy your bestfriend but that person goes to the other person because of high standards... and high standard to them was money and the car they drive. Wierd!!!
It was fun going for a sports period and not coming back even for the math class. Together the seniors and the juniors who bunked the class sat near the corridors on the stairs and a friend who kept saying, "Oh man the proffessor is here." and all of us running away from each other and meeting at someother place! Those were nice days...
The lunch breaks were awesome... walking down the corridors with the friends and making fun of young couples who seemed to be the world's worst matches... hahaha! The best part was the Diwali celebrations... Our group of seniors and the juniours making plans to burst crackers in the washroom... the people who blasted the crackers in the washrooms were our friends and we gave duty for checking the crackers... it was fun... we planned the game and pretended to prevent it!
Then attending the math class once or twice a week and making the teacher scream on us for not completing the assighnments... With new sessions we expected new and hot admissions but nothing happened. Friends remained the same. And the last one year in my school especially for my batch was an eye opener. The people who called us friends were actually the backstabbers... And the ones we assumed to be really bad proved to be the only support when we needed them the most! Life was strange at our school... millions of ups and downs, infinite tortures, countless controversies and endless rumours... but now we are leaving.... we all are together.... still not all of us but most of us.. not hand in hand but somewhere in our minds we realise our mistakes and try to mend them.... but now we don't have much time for that!
Well I have a nice friend who says life is really short... live every moment of it as much as possible!
Its true... late realisation is not going to help us anyways... all of us will be going to different directions and I hope everything turns out to be well so that all of us have a peacefull farewell from our school!
At this point of time I hate my school and my batchmates but I know I'm going to miss my school a lot!
Bye Bye B.P.S....
:)

Puppy Love

My love for dogs has many stories!!! As I never had a dog as a pet so every dog is special to me!!! About a year ago, we had a stray dog in our colony named “Sheru”... He was someone’s pet and the person left him here because he was shifting!!! How irresponsible!!! I used to give him milk and a bit of dog food every time I saw him near my house!!! He was sweet!!! We were friends!!! One day I had a fight with someone on road and Sheru bit the guy!! Also there was a dog that was running behind me and Sheru saved me from that dog too!!! The other day after my exams when I went there... I could not see him!!! Because he came under some ruthless person’s care!!! And died!!!
About six months ago I found 7 puppies rolling down the road all alone without their mom!!! I went there with my father to drop my friend to her place and when I saw the puppies, I said, “Dad I want a puppy like that, I would name him Troy”.... I love my dad for what he did!! He got that puppy to our house!! I named him troy!!! We kept him for two days!! I loved him!! His eyes were so beautiful and innocent!!! Because he was new to our house so whenever he used to wake up he cried!!! I woke up in the middle of the night and made him quiet!! My sister said I took his care as a mom!! LOL! But I don’t have him now because everyone was busy and could not find a way out of how could we take care of him because when everyone would have gone to work, Troy had to stay all alone at home!! So we had to leave him back because for a pup it’s not easy to manage alone!!! And the other day when I went back he wasn’t there!! The guard on duty told me that a stupid Dog Catcher Van took away all the puppies!!
Now, I have a stray dog around my home!!! It was a cute used to be pet Labrador which is my favourite breed. I named him Brownie!! Around a month ago I watched a few dog movies viz. Cats & Dogs, B.H. Chihuahua and my favourite Marley and me! So I changed his name from Brownie to Marley! People in my colony are scared of him but I find him cute!! That’s the cleanest of all stray dogs!! I think someone grooms him every week!! He doesn’t even stink!!! My parents also love him!!! But the movie scares me!!! He is old too!!! I don’t want to make a hat trick of losing pets!!!
I feel like having a pet dog!!! Every time I watch the movie I cry!! And my parents laugh!!! That day I watched that movie with friends, I cried and everyone laughed at me!!! Dogs can be the best friends you can ever have!! We should always have feeling for dogs too as we have for the people!!! We see poor people who cannot take care of themselves because they can’t afford stuff and we shoe sympathy!! What about dogs??? They don’t even know what money is...