Showing posts with label Delimma. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Delimma. Show all posts

Friday, October 22, 2010

Equality in sexes is still an issue..?? Shame on us!

Today early morning when I signed in my facebook account I saw the first update from my teacher. A debate topic.. "WORLD WOULD BE BETTER IF RUN BY WOMEN.."
I really wanted to write something there but instead I chose to write a blog. Yes the same topic.
But instead of a debate I'd rather make it a humourously practical blog.

To start with early times, women were given less important and were not given the chances to prove themselves. But now the time has changed. With the time, society has also changed. Women are given equal total rights like standing in the elections, different ques too... LOL. But wen we come to the designation to run the world... What I believe is that it really doesn't depend on that. Its the sense of responsiblity that can actually make the world a better place... Either sexes should be responsible. Not necessary that the women is a prime minister, she can bring a change. Even a simple house wife can.

I love givein her example in such situations. Ms. Kiran Ahluwalia did. She is a simple indian lady whose husband did no good to her. He used to harass her like completely... She was shattered. Her dreams of a good marriage were shattered. But after suffering years of abuses and harassment, she burnt her husband and got imprisoned. But still she won the case and was acknowledged internationally. And now, no husband dares to do such a thing to ladies because of the laws government has made after such cases.
This itself is a big change.
Then former IPS officer Dr. Kiran Bedi has done really good job all her life and had done a great welfare for the prisonors of Tihar.
oh so many kirans. . !!
Well moving on to men. Rather a boy... One day I saw on news that a 10 year old boy saved a girl from being kidnapped... And then the reporter helped evacuating at the time of a terrorist attack.. and ofcourse Mr. APJ Abdul Kalam has given so much in the science field.

And about the designation thing, I still see so many women leaders doing no good to the society. It's not that just women are doing bad but men do it too...
Because if we talk of the people in power, no matter what the designation is, a person has to be responsible and should have an urge for the welfare of the society. Be it any of the sexes, if a person takes bad advantage of the power, he or she is doing no good to the society.
I don't blame anyone though... I just believe in equality.

A person can never be judged as good or bad, its the behaviour and thinking of the person. If each and every person is responsible for onself and the society and is true at heart and has the desire to change onself and hence the society, they can actually bring a change, no matter what sex they belong to...  And hence the change is brought into the society...

Wednesday, June 9, 2010

Experiencing Stupid-hood

Here I am... Back from the mall!
Actually I had a power cut at my place so I went to this nearest mall! This is a really stupid mall... really small one and has the worst crowd anyone can ever see! Except when I am there! lol!

This is one place I can go anytime of day and i don't have to ask anyone!!! And the best part is that i really don't have to think hard about my dress there!!! Never mind!!

Its not that I was there for the first time like this!!! But for some stupid reason things today were strange! Or I must say that people today I met were strange! As soon as i entered there was this guy who just started talking to me without any introduction... He was the MAD GUY!!!

Mad guy: Oh man!!! we are so damn late for the show!!! come lets hurry up!!

Me (embarrassed): Excuse me... I guess you are mistaken!

Mad guy: Oh its OK! I'm not gonna kill you for being late or something!!!

He held my hand and started to pull me!

Me (shocked, annoyed and really really mad at him): Excuse me.... don't you get it... m not the one you are looking for! Please go away and try find out some one else!!!

Well yeah... It kinda called up the crowed when i finally yelled! but he was so much ashamed that he took away the crowd and all the eyes away from me!
And then i finally headed to McDonald's. I asked for my corner... yeah an attendant there is my friend who always gets me my seat!!!

Anyways... I sat there with my novel open and my coke in one hand! On the whole I started enjoying again that my attendant friend told me that now she is going to leave this branch and she was getting a much much better McD... I was then in my mixed thoughts... As a friend I was happy for her... But on the second thought i realised that when she's gone... who'll keep my seat for me??? :O
I was sad again!!! And that was on my face because she got to know about it...

Never mind!! Its her life... not mine... I'll definitely find a way out!
I continued sipping... And then I signed off!