Friday, October 22, 2010

Equality in sexes is still an issue..?? Shame on us!

Today early morning when I signed in my facebook account I saw the first update from my teacher. A debate topic.. "WORLD WOULD BE BETTER IF RUN BY WOMEN.."
I really wanted to write something there but instead I chose to write a blog. Yes the same topic.
But instead of a debate I'd rather make it a humourously practical blog.

To start with early times, women were given less important and were not given the chances to prove themselves. But now the time has changed. With the time, society has also changed. Women are given equal total rights like standing in the elections, different ques too... LOL. But wen we come to the designation to run the world... What I believe is that it really doesn't depend on that. Its the sense of responsiblity that can actually make the world a better place... Either sexes should be responsible. Not necessary that the women is a prime minister, she can bring a change. Even a simple house wife can.

I love givein her example in such situations. Ms. Kiran Ahluwalia did. She is a simple indian lady whose husband did no good to her. He used to harass her like completely... She was shattered. Her dreams of a good marriage were shattered. But after suffering years of abuses and harassment, she burnt her husband and got imprisoned. But still she won the case and was acknowledged internationally. And now, no husband dares to do such a thing to ladies because of the laws government has made after such cases.
This itself is a big change.
Then former IPS officer Dr. Kiran Bedi has done really good job all her life and had done a great welfare for the prisonors of Tihar.
oh so many kirans. . !!
Well moving on to men. Rather a boy... One day I saw on news that a 10 year old boy saved a girl from being kidnapped... And then the reporter helped evacuating at the time of a terrorist attack.. and ofcourse Mr. APJ Abdul Kalam has given so much in the science field.

And about the designation thing, I still see so many women leaders doing no good to the society. It's not that just women are doing bad but men do it too...
Because if we talk of the people in power, no matter what the designation is, a person has to be responsible and should have an urge for the welfare of the society. Be it any of the sexes, if a person takes bad advantage of the power, he or she is doing no good to the society.
I don't blame anyone though... I just believe in equality.

A person can never be judged as good or bad, its the behaviour and thinking of the person. If each and every person is responsible for onself and the society and is true at heart and has the desire to change onself and hence the society, they can actually bring a change, no matter what sex they belong to...  And hence the change is brought into the society...

Thursday, October 21, 2010

Yes I made F.R.I.E.N.D.S.

Oh come on readers... Stop complaining about my late sttendence... I have my busy college and then had my exams and then holidays... had a blast!!
But missed a really good friend of mine...
Well. my college is great. Its in Greater Noida under UPTU so technically it should have weird people. As in like really weird who think that city girls are mean and full of attitude.. but trust me, its just a myth... look at me. I'm so attitude-less and dumb...
Never mind. I made pretty much great friends there. Especially a girl... No I mean I'm perfectly straight but had no girl friend. I made a girlfriend. SUR. My sister... Soul sister..I hardly know her. But she is exactly like me...  Love her totally.
And then I have a friend SAKSH. Super Duper awesome... He thinks people hate him... but I like him rather love him as a friend.. I know I can count on him and so can he... Whenever I'm standing alone in a crowd confused what to do, where to go and whome to talk, I find him somehow... He's always there. He better be... hehe..
And then I have MAY. He was earlier in my tuition class... We used to hate each other. Fought like hell. But now we are buddies... Love him so much. He saves me all the time... Everytime I'm into a trouble cz of my stupidity I find MAY, standing there waiting for me and when I'm done with all the clumpsyness, he takes me out of it.
All of 'em have there impoortance in life. I don't know what I mean to 'em but they mean a lot to me.
Love 'em completely.

P.S. Yes i had a fight with MAY. As usual... BUt will be sorted out soon...